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I am 48 and he’s only 30. Everybody’s telling me that I could be his mother, but I love him, and I can not break u This topic is answered by a medical expert. I fell in love with much younger man.
Hi, I fell in love with much younger man. I am 48 and he’s only 30. Everybody’s telling me that I could be his mother, but I love him, and I can not break up with him. Is this relationship really that wrong? Guest over a year ago. Hi, if your boyfriend were 18 years old, I would tell you that you are sick and that you have to let him go. However, you fell in love in a grown man, who is 30 years old, and there is nothing wrong in your relationship. If he loves you knowing that you’re much older than him, and if you love him, I don’t see the problem in your relationship. I don’t understand why are people trying to destroy something beautiful. Maybe they are jealous because you found a younger man. If you know in your heart that it’s a right thing, don’t let anyone destroy it. Difference in age is important only for young people, because they still change and form their character. But for people over thirty, it doesn’t really matter if your man is much younger or much older. Guest over a year ago. I think that love is a bound that it is not always logic. A gap of age is a gap of age and period! Perhaps if he was 18 he still have much growing up to do but they still could have children if they desired so. Feelings have no age, and certainly love is timeless no matter what age you are. It would be a different experience where as a woman you would have to mother a bit. But SICK? I don't think so. If you travel to other parts of the world you would see that it is not unusual to see young women (18 or even younger)with much older men.So if it is the opposite and an older woman fall for a young adult we refer to it as some kind of unbalance or as you called sickness. It is time for us to evolve and to set a better understand of something as quantum" as the phenomena of "falling in love". Now the question is. will this kind of relationship last? Who knows? Even the most "perfect" matches falls. It is about whether you want to take the chances. Guest over a year ago. Hi, I am a 64 year old woman, attrac tive, people say I look 10 years younger.. have been in relationship with single 42 year old guy for 6 years. The downside is our relationship secret because of family reactions could destroy the relationship. It is started to happen now, I live a life of annonimmity,,both of us placing the other in public denial. I would come clean.. he won't for fear of family rejection. One day he will want a family. I need to let go, but I cannot. The double life is a killer, self respect, self esteem, I cannot acknowledge the relationship publicly.. barriers do exist..prejudice exists..I am English, he is French. where do I go from here?? Val %-) %-) %-) Guest over a year ago. I am in love with someone who is much younger than me. He says he loves me. We have wonderful chemistry. we do keep it a secret in public. I know that I need to let him go. He has a lot of living he should do yet. I would like to hear more about your relationship and I do NOT think it is wrong. healthnfitnessguy112567 over a year ago. I'm glad to see this thread that everyone is able to support each other. I don't think there's anything wrong with loving a younger man any more than there's a problem with an older man loving a younger woman. If you two respect each other and care for each other then there's really no problem and anyone who judges that is being foolish. Does anyone else have a similar situation? Guest over a year ago. I turn 60 today and am married to a man who is 63 and I have a lover that is 30 and we have been lovers for 5 years. I love my husband but I love my lover, he gives me what I need to feel complete= love, kindness, understanding, and most important his friendship. We cannot publicly be together because of the age difference. He has been married and divorced while we maintained our relationship through all of it. He always tells me how much he loves and adores me and I feel the same about him. Yes, it is sometimes a mommy thing but only when it comes to him needing some advice and I never put him down for doing dumb stuff, I just call them left turns when he should have turned right. We have so much passion for each other it is amazing, I thought it was me who only felt like this but he tells me how he feels about me all the time and it is deep. I only wish I had the magic wand to turn back my age so we can go out in public and be a together all of the time but it will never happen, and so, we are secretly in love with each other, it is weird but neither one of us has any control over how we feel, we love each other so much. I am very attractive and always have been, many people tell me when they first meet me they think I am the most beautiful woman they ever met, which is a great compliment that only builds my self esteem and is probably one of the reasons he is still my lover. He is very good looking and girls and women of all ages hit on him all the time, and he does have flings, looking for the perfect woman that is closer to his age. In 5 years he has not found her, only me. I do not know what to think or do with this because I cannot change how we feel about each other and it is driving us crazy, thinking we are just plain weird. If I had to do it all over again I would never get involved with him because it is so depressing to not be able to be together all the time because it is weird. He has told his parents about us and how much he loves me, they love me too. His mom tells me my age is just a number and it has nothing to do with how we love one another. His parents are 10 years younger than me, making it all even weirder. Again, I love my husband too, but he is bossy, demanding, controlling and says very mean things just to hurt my feelings and self esteem. I know he loves me, he was just raised by very critical parents and so he is also very critical. My lover is not that way, he is sweet and kind and would never try to hurt me and only makes me feel good about myself. This is what has attracted me to him even though our age difference is tremendous. I have been married for 40 years and this is my first affair, what an affair it has become. guest over a year ago. I am in the same boat. I'm 37 and recently became infatuated with a 19 yr old. I am old enough to be HIS mother, too, and the worse part is that he calls me 'Aunt X' (the norm in our culture with respect to how known elders are addressed). I cringe every time he refers to me as 'Aunt' So-and-So. I need to deal with it and accept it because I can never have him as anything more than a likable 'nephew'. My community would ostracize me and ex-communicate me and I cannot risk the stigma attaching itself to my children. I am depressed and upset and seriously thinking of moving away. This is going to end up killing me. I feel like such a loser and so pathetic. Sh1t happens, I just need to learn to deal with it. Guest over a year ago. I am a 47 year old woman, divorced with two children. My lover is almost 21. Our relationship is sweet, supportive, healthy and amazing sexually.
Having a relationship with a younger man
Article about having a relationship with a younger man:
I am 48 and he’s only 30. Everybody’s telling me that I could be his mother, but I love him, and I can not break u This topic is answered by a medical expert. I fell in love with much younger man.
Hi, I fell in love with much younger man. I am 48 and he’s only 30. Everybody’s telling me that I could be his mother, but I love him, and I can not break up with him. Is this relationship really that wrong? Guest over a year ago. Hi, if your boyfriend were 18 years old, I would tell you that you are sick and that you have to let him go. However, you fell in love in a grown man, who is 30 years old, and there is nothing wrong in your relationship. If he loves you knowing that you’re much older than him, and if you love him, I don’t see the problem in your relationship. I don’t understand why are people trying to destroy something beautiful. Maybe they are jealous because you found a younger man. If you know in your heart that it’s a right thing, don’t let anyone destroy it. Difference in age is important only for young people, because they still change and form their character. But for people over thirty, it doesn’t really matter if your man is much younger or much older. Guest over a year ago. I think that love is a bound that it is not always logic. A gap of age is a gap of age and period! Perhaps if he was 18 he still have much growing up to do but they still could have children if they desired so. Feelings have no age, and certainly love is timeless no matter what age you are. It would be a different experience where as a woman you would have to mother a bit. But SICK? I don't think so. If you travel to other parts of the world you would see that it is not unusual to see young women (18 or even younger)with much older men.So if it is the opposite and an older woman fall for a young adult we refer to it as some kind of unbalance or as you called sickness. It is time for us to evolve and to set a better understand of something as quantum" as the phenomena of "falling in love". Now the question is. will this kind of relationship last? Who knows? Even the most "perfect" matches falls. It is about whether you want to take the chances. Guest over a year ago. Hi, I am a 64 year old woman, attrac tive, people say I look 10 years younger.. have been in relationship with single 42 year old guy for 6 years. The downside is our relationship secret because of family reactions could destroy the relationship. It is started to happen now, I live a life of annonimmity,,both of us placing the other in public denial. I would come clean.. he won't for fear of family rejection. One day he will want a family. I need to let go, but I cannot. The double life is a killer, self respect, self esteem, I cannot acknowledge the relationship publicly.. barriers do exist..prejudice exists..I am English, he is French. where do I go from here?? Val %-) %-) %-) Guest over a year ago. I am in love with someone who is much younger than me. He says he loves me. We have wonderful chemistry. we do keep it a secret in public. I know that I need to let him go. He has a lot of living he should do yet. I would like to hear more about your relationship and I do NOT think it is wrong. healthnfitnessguy112567 over a year ago. I'm glad to see this thread that everyone is able to support each other. I don't think there's anything wrong with loving a younger man any more than there's a problem with an older man loving a younger woman. If you two respect each other and care for each other then there's really no problem and anyone who judges that is being foolish. Does anyone else have a similar situation? Guest over a year ago. I turn 60 today and am married to a man who is 63 and I have a lover that is 30 and we have been lovers for 5 years. I love my husband but I love my lover, he gives me what I need to feel complete= love, kindness, understanding, and most important his friendship. We cannot publicly be together because of the age difference. He has been married and divorced while we maintained our relationship through all of it. He always tells me how much he loves and adores me and I feel the same about him. Yes, it is sometimes a mommy thing but only when it comes to him needing some advice and I never put him down for doing dumb stuff, I just call them left turns when he should have turned right. We have so much passion for each other it is amazing, I thought it was me who only felt like this but he tells me how he feels about me all the time and it is deep. I only wish I had the magic wand to turn back my age so we can go out in public and be a together all of the time but it will never happen, and so, we are secretly in love with each other, it is weird but neither one of us has any control over how we feel, we love each other so much. I am very attractive and always have been, many people tell me when they first meet me they think I am the most beautiful woman they ever met, which is a great compliment that only builds my self esteem and is probably one of the reasons he is still my lover. He is very good looking and girls and women of all ages hit on him all the time, and he does have flings, looking for the perfect woman that is closer to his age. In 5 years he has not found her, only me. I do not know what to think or do with this because I cannot change how we feel about each other and it is driving us crazy, thinking we are just plain weird. If I had to do it all over again I would never get involved with him because it is so depressing to not be able to be together all the time because it is weird. He has told his parents about us and how much he loves me, they love me too. His mom tells me my age is just a number and it has nothing to do with how we love one another. His parents are 10 years younger than me, making it all even weirder. Again, I love my husband too, but he is bossy, demanding, controlling and says very mean things just to hurt my feelings and self esteem. I know he loves me, he was just raised by very critical parents and so he is also very critical. My lover is not that way, he is sweet and kind and would never try to hurt me and only makes me feel good about myself. This is what has attracted me to him even though our age difference is tremendous. I have been married for 40 years and this is my first affair, what an affair it has become. guest over a year ago. I am in the same boat. I'm 37 and recently became infatuated with a 19 yr old. I am old enough to be HIS mother, too, and the worse part is that he calls me 'Aunt X' (the norm in our culture with respect to how known elders are addressed). I cringe every time he refers to me as 'Aunt' So-and-So. I need to deal with it and accept it because I can never have him as anything more than a likable 'nephew'. My community would ostracize me and ex-communicate me and I cannot risk the stigma attaching itself to my children. I am depressed and upset and seriously thinking of moving away. This is going to end up killing me. I feel like such a loser and so pathetic. Sh1t happens, I just need to learn to deal with it. Guest over a year ago. I am a 47 year old woman, divorced with two children. My lover is almost 21. Our relationship is sweet, supportive, healthy and amazing sexually.
Having a relationship with a younger man